People who know me well know how I feel about the "prosperity gospel" movement with its promises of health, wealth, prosperity, and power - usually guaranteed when you give a financial contribution ("seed offering") to their ministries. My main issue, besides the blatant false teaching that comes out of this movement, is with the lack of humility shown by many of its leaders with their focus on self-gratification, self-fulfillment, self-empowerment, and entitlement - what's in it for self instead of glorifying the Lord, and even elevating oneself to god-status.
One look at the bookshelves in a Christian bookstore gives witness to this with titles like 5 Steps to Release God's Power for Promotion and Increase in Your Life, Your Best Life Now, You're Supposed to be Wealthy, Become a Better You, 8 Steps to Create the Life You Want, How to Succeed at Being Yourself, Power Thoughts, Imagine Yourself Successful, Speak What You Want and Receive it Supernaturally, Release Your Destiny, and so many others.
It's more about what God is supposedly obligated to do for us or what we are supposedly entitled to in tapping into the power of the Holy Spirit than how we can serve God as the message of self-fulfillment and seeking experiences overshadows the gospel of Christ. It's more about how we can command and manipulate the Holy Spirit like a genie in a bottle to give us whatever power, experience, or material thing we want than it is about living a life in humble obedience and surrender to Jesus.
The thing is, our requests are not promised to be granted just because we ask. What IS promised is that God will give us whatever we pray for that is in agreement with his will: "And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that if we ask anything according to his will he hears us. And if we know that he hears us in whatever we ask, we know that we have the requests that we have asked of him." (1John 5:14-15)
He delights in giving us what will bring the evidence of his Holy Spirit into our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23), but he will not say yes to requests that come from a wrong motive (James 4:3: "When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures."), or when we ask out of pride (James 4:6: "God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.").
If we are genuinely seeking God's will then our motives will be pure, our hearts will be humble, and our desires will line up with His. Even Jesus, who asked to be spared from being crucified
prayed "not my will but yours be done" (Luke 22:42), then responded in humility and obedience.
The Lord invites us to come to him with boldness and confidence (Hebrews
4:16) and to bring him our petitions (Philippians 4:6), but we must
also make sure our hearts are in the right place; that we are coming
before the throne of grace with an attitude of submission and glorifying
God instead of elevating ourselves.